处理冒犯 Dealing with Offenses

当我们被冒犯时，不论对方是否真的有错，大多时因为我们里面还有偶像，其实是我们里面那个偶像被冒犯了。很多时候这个偶像的名字叫做“我必需被尊重”，“我是对的”。 这些偶像隐藏得很深，叫你以为我们被冒犯完全是因为对方的错, 所以我们感到被冒犯是应该的。关于这一点有许多可以讲的，可是现在没有时间。那么你去思考好吗？玩一个躲猫猫的游戏，找出这些深藏的偶像并赶他们出局。然后你会发现你不会那么容易被冒犯了。

如果你被冒犯了或冒犯了人，读一读这篇短文学习如何处理冒犯。中文版


When we are offended, whether the offending party was in the wrong or not,  most likely it is because there's still idol in us. It is the idol in us that got offended. Often times this idol's name is "I must be respected" or "I am right". But these idols are deeply hidden, so that we may believe our being offended is legitimate and all because the other party wronged us. There's much to say about this. Don't have time to write about it now. Why don't you go think about it? Play a hide and seek game to find out these idols in your life and throw them out. Then you will not be easily offended.

If you are offended, read this short booklet on how to deal with offenses.  English Version