超可爱。。。

这个孩子超可爱。也可以看出家长教育很到位，因为这个小朋友做到许多大人做不到的：

1。为对方考虑－糖是被妈妈吃了，但情有可原

2。诚实表达自己的感受，但不是用发脾气的方式 － 慢慢说我是有点伤心，有点生气啦

3。用分散注意力来淡化负面情绪 －想想今天还有其它开心的事

4。问题发生之后，为今后提议更好的解决方式－明年我们先讨论过再分享糖果

5。要求合理补偿－妈妈可以多花点时间陪我

最后母女以爱语结束‘冲突’对谈。值得学习哦。

This child is so adorable. The parents must have done a good job as well because the little one communicated better than most adults: 

1. Be considerate for the other party - yes mommy ate all the candy but she had a reason
2. Honestly admit feelings, without temper -  slowly expresses 'I am a little sad, a little mad at you'
3. Distract herself to pass the negative emotion - think about the happy things
4. After conflict happened, provide a better solution for the future - “next year we discuss first then share”
5. Ask for reasonable compensation - mommy could spend more time with me

The mother and daughter ended this 'conflict' conversation with "I Love you". Something we all could learn from.